I sat in a meeting the other day and at one point I thought I was in an episode of The Office – in the space of half an hour I counted over 30 clichés. It made me reflect on the power and meaning of many of these phrases, ones that we so often use to fill in the gaps in conversation, particularly when we don’t know what else to say. My conclusion is that when you get under the skin of their meaning, they really do teach us a lot about life:
Win – win – Don’t shaft anyone or it will come back to haunt you, big time
Can’t see the wood for the trees – sometimes you get so close to a problem you just need to stand back
Think out of the box – stay awake and try new ways of doing things
What gets measured gets done – focus on the priorities and what will deliver the result
Trust your gut feel – listen to your inner voice – it’s usually pretty accurate
Headless chicken – stop and think about what you are doing – success is 20% thinking 80% doing
Trust me – why should someone trust you without you proving yourself
Practice makes perfect – Malcolm Gladwell tells us that we need 10,000 hours of it, there are no short cuts to success
The point of this blog is, so much insight can be derived from the wisdom of clichés, but before you use them think about what they really mean.
I read this book just after Christmas last year and I keep going back to it in search of wisdom and insight for the entrepreneurs I deal with. The book teaches us how clarity of purpose and setting clear intentions opens us up to the world of new opportunities and how the law of attraction delivers us what we want. In many respects The Secret can be summed up in Goethe’s famous quote:
“Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back. Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth that ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one’s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now”
In my opinion The Secret can give false hope to those who don’t appreciate or embrace one extremely simple principle – life rewards people who take action. Whilst I believe the book is a source of great inspiration, my research clearly shows that successful people have an extremely strong work ethic, whilst believing they can can achieve what they set their minds to, practice, practice, practice is essential and must follow the dreaming. If we combine the teachings of The Secret with that of Malcolm Gladwell’s Outliers theory – of the”10,000-Hour Rule” then I think a formula for accelerated performance can be derived. The rule claims that the key to success in any field is, to a large extent, a matter of practicing a specific task for a total of around 10,000 hours. Fusing this thinking with the need for deeply rooted personal intentions delivers a potent mix for getting what you want.